7 Tips for a Successful Blind Date

Dating can be an exciting time or an anxious one. Sometimes, it's a mixture of both. Blind dates turn some people on and terrify others. Traditionally, these were a fix up by a well-meaning friend. It's usually ok if the friend knows what your tastes are and is genuinely thinking of your well-being. Nowadays, blind dates are just as likely to be the result of meeting in a virtual chatroom on an Internet site. This is even more anxious, as you don't have a friend to do the screening for you. The only information you have is what the person tells you about what he is buying as ring bearer gifts and there's no way to verify it until you meet him or her. Many dates like this have led to long-term relationships and lots have others have led to disaster.

The curiosity about human relations and the dating game is shown by the popularity of the reality game show, Blind Date. The viewers either like to hear wedding bells and start buying  groomsmen gifts or see a match made in hell. These plucky would be couples have to contend with the public scrutiny as well as the usual pitfalls of blind dates. At least most of us have the good sense not to put ourselves through that.

There are some safety guidelines, which should be followed when going on blind dates. These are common sense really and will give some peace of mind. Always, let a friend know whom you are meeting, when and where. Make sure they have your phone number. Meet your date in a public place far away from pubs that display personalized pub signs, which is easily accessible by cab or public transport. Some people like to use the get out, phone call trick. This is when you arrange for a friend to ring you, giving you the chance to pretend to receive alarming news. You can then make a hasty exit if the date isn't going well! Lunch on a weekday is a good first date, as you can make the excuse of having to get back to work.

Obviously, you want to make a good first impression. Be sure to dress appropriately for the venue and don't have too much to drink. If you share an interest or activity, that would be a good place to start. It's easier said than done to relax on blind dates but you have to give them a chance. If you decide that you don't want to take it any further, then no harm done.